danscotte asked: Is that in relation to like "Ew no I don't suck dick. I just wanna fuck you." or more like "Um, I would rather not try fisting."?
Both…let me unpack that.
You can know that you are not ready to be fisted tonight. But to say outright that it’s something you’ll never try or think about trying seems ridiculous. You don’t know who you will be in thirty or fifty years and what your tastes will be.
There are things I’m not ready for today, but there’s no way to know what kind of deviant I may become later in life.